Me & My Tough experiences...

This time a got a very good experience in my life. i don't know how I got it, but when it happened to me I didn't expected that I'll perform so well. Life is busy no doubt, but in between that having experience about an accident is something very different. Rather, out of my day to day life.

On 9th march, me & my friend Anindita, after college over, we planned to go market to the photo studio. we planned to gibe the soft copy of the pictures of the Social Awareness Project. Both of us were by my friend's scooty. Near Jaipuria Management College, suddenly I noticed that we are lying on the road with blood shedding from my forehead. I was silent for some seconds, after that stood up & came to know that a lady dashed us from behind. I found my friend is also severely injured. Both of us shouted a lot on that lady & finally she got agreed to take us to the nearest hospital. Forrd Hospital was at the nearest point. But that lady was in a full mood to leave us at the door of the hospital, but we were with her like her shadow.

My friend called her Mom, & doctor gave us the most bad news of our life that the doctors have to stitch our foreheads. Both of us started to shout. But slowly we got settled & one by one went for the surgery. I got 10 stitches on my right forehead. I was altogether silent. But till date didn't informed my parents, because of their hyper-tension. And more than that i'm not near to them, & don't want to give them mental pain. After that both of us had x-ray & came to know that everything is fine with us. I came back to my paying guest but went to my friend's place for some days.

Throughout this time period, I came to know about myself that I'm a runner of a long race & can suffer a lot of pain. I didn't shouted during the stitches & the dressing period. I became mentally strong. I came to know that I'm strong. When I was a child, I used to get a bad treatment that I'm a girl child, don't have that much brain & potential. I cannot make my career, I'm weak & not smart. But now I can say that I'm strong, sensible enough, potential & capable of good things.

During these days, I got a nice family bonding far from my home. I was with my friend, Anindita's family till the day doctor declared me safe & secured. It was a week with them. They are very kind & sweet. In her family her father & mother is there but the family is leaded by her sweet grandmother, "AMMA". I had lost my grandmother, when I was only 3 years old. So I don't know that much love & care of a grandmom. But this time I got them & felt very lucky to myself. I wish if I could have also got my grandmother alive till today. I miss my parents a lot. But the family I got far from my own homeland, that's amazing & I'll be debt to them through out my life.I love you all.

What is a Relationship???

What is a relationship??? Have you ever thought, or have you ever tried to answer it?. Its a saying that human beings are very emotional. But I think that we follow any relationship to be happy, to get some emotional support. If we love somebody, then on the contrary we expect love, affection, care & support.
Being into a relationship doesn't mean that you should talk to that particular person each time. It doesn't mean that you need to meet that person all the time. It means that you are taking care of that person, just listen to him/ her, his/ her feelings, views. Just think for their betterment & encourage them at each & every step of their life. Believe me its gonna be the best relationship of your life.
A lot of times I had come across the young boys & girls are having more than one love relationship. My questions is that are they reliable or are they genuine to their partner? I don't think so. If u are genuine then you should not be with more than one person. Love doesn't mean to be with each other all the times, it means that you should give all kind of independence to your partner. Whatever he/ she wants to do don't stop them. But of course their thinking & work should not be illegal or bad. They should be good & it should not harm anybody's feelings.
When I was into a relationship, I used to feel myself lucky. But when suddenly & slowly I came to across the way of thinking of my boy friend I got shocked. I used to lie to my parents & went to meet him. I used to give more importance to him more than my friends. I didn't abused him so far. I used to love him & his family a lot. One day he brutally humiliated me & my parents. And that day I decided not to talk to that person. If a person don't want to listen me then what can I do. After shouting upon me, he called me up several times & tried to say sorry. Is the five letter word SORRY so cheap. Do it have some respect. Rather do I have any respect of my own. I'm not a puppet of his hand, that whenever i'll look nice he'll hold me near to him & when I'll be bad then he'll throw me out of his life just like a mosquito out of milk. I have some dreams. I used to dream to live with him & to walk side by side by holding his hand. But god didn't gave me that opportunity. Is it my bad luck or my good? I would like to keep this question in front of the readers & please answer me whether I had done right or wrong.