Saturday, December 15, 2012

English Vinglish – A Movie To Learn About Women


English Vinglish – A Movie To Learn About Women
Sridevi, one of the popular actresses of Bollywood in the era of 1980s again came back in the film industry with her path-breaking performance in “English-Vinglish”. After 14 years of life spending without limelight, made her strong and helped her to come back with a sturdy script like this. This movie is all about attaining respect for a woman in her own house among her own family members. A laddu seller woman, who is devoting her entire life to her family, is getting rebuked by her family at every step and wants to create her own world and her own identity. In the mean time, she went to visit her sister’s daughter’s marriage ceremony in Manhattan, where she joined English learning classes with great enthusiasm.

It’s a saying that love can happen at any moment, and any age. Even love is never limited to any of the geographical boundaries. It can be brewed between people of different spheres of the world. An Indian woman can love a French man, whose language could be difficult for her to understand, but a feeling which is directly coming from the heart can be understood without knowing the language. Love never need word to express the feeling, even the eyes can also convey the emotions which can be decoded by the other heart.

I liked every point of the story, but one thing I didn’t understand that why at the end of the day, an Indian woman is bound to go back to her own family and accepting all the faults and follies of her family. Sridevi was having an insensitive man in her life and having a filthy daughter who enjoys insulting her mother at every step. Couldn’t she go to the French man who understood her profoundly? Is it not possible for a woman to go out of the cracked relationship to find out a perfect guy for her own? People do marry in order to spend life with a person who love each other and can take care of each other.

Marriage can join two unknown souls to spend quality time with each other in order to solve all the difficult queries of life together. In that case, is it a bad thing to make out the things with a man who can understand you in a better manner? Is it mandatory to be in a relationship with the man who never tried to understand his wife? If a man is consecutively insulting his wife, and wife is pinching by saying some true facts in front of the society and one fine morning that man wake up with all his intelligence and sensitivity and accepts his wife, then I must say that the husband is “worthless”. Women should really go out of the real world and should try out the new and best thins which can give her the life.

Success is the point in your life where you are satisfied and is feeling the real contentment. So everything should be experienced in a short span of life. After watching this movie I really think that every woman, especially the housewives should watch the movie. They should watch the movie by heart and should understand their own importance in the family and should go for their own dreams and aspirations in life. Life is very short so cease each and every moment of life and do the best things which can give you happiness and pleasure.