GURUS turning to MONSTERS

We seek education in order to to become a good human being. The very basic aim of being educated is to attain enlightenment. That's why since our childhood, our parents keep on pushing us to go to a good school, to be into the circle of knowledgeable teachers who can light up the talent in you and can nourish you to a well-behaved and well-nurtured person.

But now-a-days, we just open our daily newspapers and read the shameful news of rape. Few days back, the dean of academics of the very prestigious educational institution in India, named, Indian Institute of Technology, Guwahati (IIT) committed such heinous crime. He in fact, raped a woman who is working in the academics department for quite a long time. After few days of this atrocious incident, the woman came to the Police and lodged the complain against the man and eventually he was arrested by the local police.

But my first question is to all of my readers, that, why we seek education? Parents send us to schools and other educational institution to attain knowledge, not to learn the techniques to become a barber. With the help of education we learn how to behave in the society, how to live in a society, how to be a responsible citizen of the nation, how to do something good for the family and society. But I'm really sorry to say that now-a-days, the trend has changed a lot with the time. The dean pursued his B.Tech (chemical engineering) from University of Calcutta, later on pursued M.Tech and PhD in the same discipline from Indian Institute of Technology, Kharagpur (IIT-Kgp). Being an academician, his job is to encourage the students to learn something new, to help the students to explore the best things in them.

But here after reading this rape news in the newspaper, I should say that women are not at all safe in any of the field. Whatever the job they are doing, they are not safe. Those devilish eyes constantly keep following women. For these type of men, women are just a commodity to accomplish their brutal physical and sexual desires. They don't understand that how they are ruining and building a deep hatred for themselves. A woman cannot consider themselves to be the equal part of the society. those stupid sexists always pester them to consider women to be the object of physical intimacy.

My request is we should attain education and knowledge to become a responsible man, not a monster like this dean who will follow every woman with their nasty eyes. For these kind of rapists women don't have any standard in the society, they should be used to sexual satisfaction and should be thrown into the gutter, what we witnessed in the Delhi rape case and I'm sure in many other rape cases. Be a good man to pay respect to the women, because without these women there won't be any sign of happiness, reproduction, and affection. You can have sex with us, but it doesn't mean that you are making me weak. We are not the weaker sex, in fact you are the weaker sex who keep on adopting such low grade ways to fulfill their cruel and wretched feelings.

My decisions...

What we are? A person will answer that we are 'human beings'. But do we actually ask this question to ourself? I think lot many times we avoid this question. Though it sounds very simple question, but it has a deep meaning. We usually cannot bear the weight of this simple question. Half of the time, I came across this weird question from my old school friends, that why am I not getting married? When will get married? When will have my own kids? When will I start planning my future? All these questions are very important for them, but technically, its not very important for me.

I know that at the end, we are social beings, and we need a company throughout our life with whom we can share our every small issues of life. But this is not the only thing or aim of my life. I believe that I'm not made just for this. I have some more ingredients in me to create something very meaningful out of my life. My parents never considered me to be the weakest sex on earth as I'm a girl or they didn't think that my aim of life is to rear a family. They always encouraged me to bring happiness not only in  my life, but also in others' life who are very close to me. They enthusiastically pushed me to achieve something new and different.

My dad always says that, "You are not made for the simple work on earth. Those simple work can be done by other people. You have the hunger to create your own image and individuality. So don't look back and just pull up your socks to run with other competitors." It doesn't mean that he is pressurizing me to be a part of today's rat race, but he is telling me to set an example for the society. My mom also says that create your personality in such a manner that people will comply to your thoughts and will perceive the world in a different way. Be a leader where you can be the guiding force for others.

So the simple message I want to share with everyone is I want to live my life on my own conditions. I'm educated enough that I can mark a demarcation between right and wrong. I don't need any other person's kind suggestions of getting married and reproducing my future progeny. I'm here to be something that people can name me as an example. I also want to visit every tiny corner of the world to see their world, to feel their culture. I want to learn more in my life to educate more. I want to try some more new things where I can easily explore myself. For all these this life won't be enough I guess. But a good company off course can make the things smooth and pleasurable for me. So guys hope for the BEST, because the BEST is always yet to come!!!