Monstrous Side of a Man

We read newspapers almost every day, and confront some of the other rape cases and incidents as well. But can anyone tell me that how long we think over it, or how seriously we feel the pain of that woman who was being raped? I guess the answer is NO. Because half of the newspaper readers are interested in political news, some are there for sports news and entertain news. But hardly people pay attention to these sad news. Personally speaking, when I read the rape cases in newspapers, I feel terribly sorry for those who faced this situation and feel the pain of being born as woman.

In Indian society, people say that women are the blissful creature on earth who is blessed with the power supremacy of bringing a life on this earth. Basically, what we teach to those young ones? Do we talk about their career growth, education, priorities in life; or we just let them also read these horrendous rape cases in the newspapers every day. 

Today, again I read about the pathetic incident of Aruna Shanbaug, a Mumbaikar nurse who was brutally raped in the year 1973. Since, that time she is lying in the bed like a vegetative piece of bones & flesh. She was a nurse in a government run hospital, and on 27th November a contract sweeper man named Sohanlal B. Walmiki raped her while she was finishing her duty. He tied her throat with an iron chain, and that chocked her throat and directly stopped the supply of oxygen towards her brain. Along with this her brain stem and cervical chord became useless since that day. 

As she is lying in the death bed for the last almost 42 years (which makes her world's oldest comatose patient) given birth to many serious questions. The man who raped her is now living somewhat an idyllic life. He was punished for just 7 years for assaulting Aruna and trying to rob her. If he was trying to rob her and assaulted her, then why he oppressed her like this. What kind of happiness he achieved after raping her? She lived a painful life lying in the bed for almost 42 years and lost her family members as well. Now before her death she wished for her final rights to be done by any of her acquaintances who wants to claim her body. She lost her family members as well in these 42 years. No one was there beside her when she breathed her last. 

My simple question is for this society is where is the humankind? Are we born as human beings to rape women, and make their life miserable. What is the happiness rapists get by committing such heinous crimes? When this society will learn to behave like a civilized society? When these devil like men will understand the importance of women? When will they understand the balance of the society and responsibilities towards the human race? We women are not made to give birth to your (men) progeny by using your sperms. Never think that by donating your sperm to my womb, you are creating something great or contributing something huge to this society. If you cannot respect a woman, then please don't play with her. Try to make her feel special and give respect to her. Raping a woman, can be a rape on your mother and sister as well. You are also born out of your mother only. So please think like a real man and try to behave like a civilized one. 

Follow your HEART...

We have so many wishes to fulfill in our life, like, need to study hard; need to get a job with decent salary; need to get married; need to have children; and many more. Sometimes, we dream all these wishes, sometimes or parents or society forces these wishes on us. Do we really listen to our heart that what our heart needs? I think a handful of people listen to their heart.

In this post of my blog, I would like to encourage everyone to listen to their. Under the pressure of people, family, acquaintances, friends and so on, we don't concentrate on our own wishes. Usually when people keep on shouting or forcing their wishes, expectations from us; we tend to avoid to ignore our heart's voice. Somewhat it fades away. Did we ever ask ourselves what is the thing right now we want to do? We might have asked ourselves, but failed to follow our heart because of the various pressures we suffer from our surroundings. We also forget that a small thing can also make ourselves happy.

It may happen that if we need a simple thing, let's say you need a new tee shirt to buy. Friends or parents may scold & you may avoid the entire plan of buying it. But on the contrary we can save money for the time being, and later on after few days, when we will have enough money we can easily buy that particular tee shirt. We might also have the idea of visiting the golden sand of Rajasthan; green undulated valleys of Kashmir; artistic mountainous scenic beauty of North-Eastern states; or the silver lined coastal beaches of South India. But because of some or the other issues, we tend to throw away these desires and follow those pressures what people or society put on us.

I'm not saying to pursue something which is humungous or expensive. Just listen to your heart and pursue the smallest things you wish for. Time will pass by on its own pace, and it won't come back again in your life. So whenever you are getting time, listen to your minutest wishes and take the initiative to fulfill it in your life. After all you have a little time to enjoy along with the risks and problematic issues in life. So follow them and do it now!!!