What is a relationship??? Have you ever thought, or have you ever tried to answer it?. Its a saying that human beings are very emotional. But I think that we follow any relationship to be happy, to get some emotional support. If we love somebody, then on the contrary we expect love, affection, care & support.
Being into a relationship doesn't mean that you should talk to that particular person each time. It doesn't mean that you need to meet that person all the time. It means that you are taking care of that person, just listen to him/ her, his/ her feelings, views. Just think for their betterment & encourage them at each & every step of their life. Believe me its gonna be the best relationship of your life.
A lot of times I had come across the young boys & girls are having more than one love relationship. My questions is that are they reliable or are they genuine to their partner? I don't think so. If u are genuine then you should not be with more than one person. Love doesn't mean to be with each other all the times, it means that you should give all kind of independence to your partner. Whatever he/ she wants to do don't stop them. But of course their thinking & work should not be illegal or bad. They should be good & it should not harm anybody's feelings.
When I was into a relationship, I used to feel myself lucky. But when suddenly & slowly I came to across the way of thinking of my boy friend I got shocked. I used to lie to my parents & went to meet him. I used to give more importance to him more than my friends. I didn't abused him so far. I used to love him & his family a lot. One day he brutally humiliated me & my parents. And that day I decided not to talk to that person. If a person don't want to listen me then what can I do. After shouting upon me, he called me up several times & tried to say sorry. Is the five letter word SORRY so cheap. Do it have some respect. Rather do I have any respect of my own. I'm not a puppet of his hand, that whenever i'll look nice he'll hold me near to him & when I'll be bad then he'll throw me out of his life just like a mosquito out of milk. I have some dreams. I used to dream to live with him & to walk side by side by holding his hand. But god didn't gave me that opportunity. Is it my bad luck or my good? I would like to keep this question in front of the readers & please answer me whether I had done right or wrong.
Being into a relationship doesn't mean that you should talk to that particular person each time. It doesn't mean that you need to meet that person all the time. It means that you are taking care of that person, just listen to him/ her, his/ her feelings, views. Just think for their betterment & encourage them at each & every step of their life. Believe me its gonna be the best relationship of your life.
A lot of times I had come across the young boys & girls are having more than one love relationship. My questions is that are they reliable or are they genuine to their partner? I don't think so. If u are genuine then you should not be with more than one person. Love doesn't mean to be with each other all the times, it means that you should give all kind of independence to your partner. Whatever he/ she wants to do don't stop them. But of course their thinking & work should not be illegal or bad. They should be good & it should not harm anybody's feelings.
When I was into a relationship, I used to feel myself lucky. But when suddenly & slowly I came to across the way of thinking of my boy friend I got shocked. I used to lie to my parents & went to meet him. I used to give more importance to him more than my friends. I didn't abused him so far. I used to love him & his family a lot. One day he brutally humiliated me & my parents. And that day I decided not to talk to that person. If a person don't want to listen me then what can I do. After shouting upon me, he called me up several times & tried to say sorry. Is the five letter word SORRY so cheap. Do it have some respect. Rather do I have any respect of my own. I'm not a puppet of his hand, that whenever i'll look nice he'll hold me near to him & when I'll be bad then he'll throw me out of his life just like a mosquito out of milk. I have some dreams. I used to dream to live with him & to walk side by side by holding his hand. But god didn't gave me that opportunity. Is it my bad luck or my good? I would like to keep this question in front of the readers & please answer me whether I had done right or wrong.
Dr(Dear, and not Doctor) Moumita,
ReplyDeleteWe all are trapped in a social circle and more or less do what is in the interest of our near ones rather than what interests us (watever be the reason behind)!!
i cant say who is wrong or rite unless i encounter dat situation...bt, by seeing todays scenario yeah its very difficult 2 maintain a true relationship...v generally fall into luv very easily on seeing any nice person widout thinking its long term consequence.
ReplyDelete@Ankur....yes u r ri8...I also faced d same situation....
ReplyDelete@Victor...Though i can't write now doctor but very soon i'll write....jokes apart, i understand that v shud do what d other person want..but sometimes situation doesn't permit us 2 do so....if d person has ego den I also have some....if i can understand him, den he shud also understand me. if he can't dat means he don't deserve my love & affection.
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