Career Vs. Stomach

When I was brushing up yesterday’s, my eyes stopped at one article, the topic was about supporting men in their career. Now-a-days, the concept gets changed and now the theory has a different and very inner meaning. Earlier it was a saying that, the best way to reach a man’s heart goes through their stomach, but now the concept is absolutely vice verse. Now theorists are saying that the best way to reach men’s heart goes through their career. 


Dr. Dobranski, a prominent psychiatrist of United States of America propounded this theory recently. But being a regular reader of Times of India and a follower of psychology, I really don’t prefer it. Isn’t it something gender discrimination? Psychology revitalizes and gives a shape to a man’s thought. But I think the notion of the modern psychology has got changed a bit. Especially in a country like India, the relationship between a man and woman is hugely different. It’s totally a North Pole and South Pole difference.
Generally people say that, these days’ women are also getting the equal chance as like a man. But my question is, is it really true? As far as I know the survey report of United Nations, still India is a nation which is ranking at the top level in girl feticide, girl infanticide, maternal health issues and many more. I’m just naming some of them. There must be several cases which are not getting space in the newspapers. Still lot of families is there which are burning in the issue of dowry and they are forced to throw their girls in this severe problem.

Everybody knows law, but how many of them are following the exact law. We are the culprits, we break the law somehow or the other in order to provide ourselves all kind of facilities. After reading this article, what I felt is that men are not the only creature on the earth who should get support for their career from their better halves. Women should get the same option. If a woman is behind a man’s success then why can’t a man behind the success of woman. Whether it’s a girl child or a boy, they uses name of father in the schools and colleges, but why they are not liable to use their mothers’ name.

Few years back, Supreme Court of India gave the verdict that a child a use mother’s name in the schools and colleges if he/she is willing to use. This is the age of “live together” and “single parent”. They men and women have the same authority on their child. Even a mother should be educated enough because she is the person who should educate her children, then why all the credit goes to fathers or the male fraternity. Female fraternity should get half of the credit as they are educating their kids and undergo the severe pain of delivering her child for hours.

Honestly speaking, I’m a hardcore feminist and I don’t agree to this theory. Female are not the creatures who are going to support their dream men every moment, men are also supposed to support their wives at the time of need, not by considering them as the weakest sex on earth, but believe them as the power which gives birth to another life on earth.