The huge step like extra marital affair comes into an individual’s life when something is missing. It may be due to children, responsibilities and duties for other relationships and issues like maladjustment between the couple. When the couple crosses the age limit of 35 or so, many at times they suffer from the adjustment problem with their spouses. They may think that the spark which was there in the life is now gone. But it’s nothing like that, if there is a very good understanding between the couple then this kind of problem can be avoidable.
Life is not just confined in the job, family, relations, children and other commitments. Enjoyment and exploring about new things are very important. People may get bore by engaging themselves in these issues but solution is to take a break. You can take a break, but it’s totally up to you that in what way you want to take the break. It may be a small family trip to a beautiful destination or it may be a normal stay with family at home.
In a scene when, Kate Winslet is talking to other women about a piece of literature, she supported the way of going out of the archetypal ritual of a married relationship and told to maintain the way the central character of the novel was behaving. Life can make you understand many things. When people face it they gains the experience but without facing the problem you won’t be able to realize the limit of the issue.
A woman always strives for love and care from her family, but this is also important that she should gout of the conventional way of life and should explore her qualities and behavioral intricacies. According to the feminism theory, Elaine Cicoux commented that, when a man can go out of the conformist rules and can enjoy with a lady, then why don’t woman do the same. She is also a human being and has the same authority to do that. When Kate (Sarah) went out of her so called married relationship and bought a swimming costume to show off her curves to Patrick (Brad), she realized a woman who is hungry for a sexual need.
She did what she wanted, but she comprehended that she is doing wrong and suddenly when her daughter run away and she was finding her, she understood that she’s her mother and she is the creator for her future. When her baby is with her then she is nobody to ditch her and gift her new father. She decided to proceed with her daughter and left Brad. On the other hand, when Brad was trying to practice sports and lost his sense, he got his spine fractured. That was a very touching dialogue by him, “Call my wife”. Though he was also in a plan to leave his wife but suddenly he understood that his injury stopped him to commit something wrong. If Brad would have got married with Sarah, then they would have been a happy couple, but was it sure that their kids would have been happier. What about Kelly who used to love Brad immensely. Everything could be topsy-turvy but some mishaps are good and changed everything in everybody’s life directly or indirectly. So I learnt that if you want to explore yourself, then obviously go for it but never take any wrong step which will ruin everybody’s happiness.
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