Recently, few friends of mine got married and I'm very happy for them. All of them used to say that they are engaged and want to get married with their lover, but suddenly what happened I don't know and they got married to someone unknown to them. I asked them many at times that what happened that you didn't marry that guy and is spending your life with somebody whom you don't know. They answer that my boy friend was not upto the mark and I was not able to adjust with him. I was wondering few days back that if you don't know a person after spending some quality time with him, then its a matter of shame that you are not able to adjust with him.
Last day, one of my school friend asked me that when I am getting married. I don't understand, when my parents are not worried about my marriage then why the hell the entire world is worried about me. Currently I don't have any intention to get married so early. Getting married in such a tender age used to be the trend of the olden days, not now. Even women are getting married in the late 30s and are getting pregnant in early 40s. These days', doctor are also prescribing for late marriage and late pregnancy. They are not fools, they had extensive research on it and finally declared this.
A month ago, my another school friend was asking me about job openings after getting married. She is just graduation passed, and have hardly command over English. Now she is blessed with her son who is of about 3 years and husband is working in a renowned organization. I personally feel that life is not all about getting married, having a loving husband and cute children. If I'm studying, doing well in life and my parents are not at all concerned about my marriage then what's wrong out here. Here in this part of the nation I brazen out numerous illiterate and uncivilized people who really think that girls are the useless weight on this earth and their aim of life should walk around their family and kids.
Last night I went for dinner with my very good friend and was shocked to know his views about the female fraternity. Once I told him that for guys 30-32 is the ideal age to get married because at this ripen age men become serious and focused about their life, they get matured and know how to manage their life. He is into his family business and I must accept that he could be an outstanding businessman, he has razor sharp business skills. I was astonished by listening his perception that, when at the age of 32 I'll marry then I'll get a girl of 28-29. I said, "Are the girls of 28-29 are not girls? What's wrong in them?" But he said that's wrong & I don't want to fight over this issue.
This particular thing was a kind of eye-opener for me. I think that now the girls should come up with some strong actions. Women fought their voting rights in several parts of the world, then I think this is the best time for the Indian women to announce a revolution against the male chauvinism and should prove them wrong. Women should pursue their studies and should take up the profession they like the most. Education make a human being modest and unpretentious facilitate the capability to think over their independence and sovereignty. Hope I'm able to convey my message to my female readers properly.
Last day, one of my school friend asked me that when I am getting married. I don't understand, when my parents are not worried about my marriage then why the hell the entire world is worried about me. Currently I don't have any intention to get married so early. Getting married in such a tender age used to be the trend of the olden days, not now. Even women are getting married in the late 30s and are getting pregnant in early 40s. These days', doctor are also prescribing for late marriage and late pregnancy. They are not fools, they had extensive research on it and finally declared this.
A month ago, my another school friend was asking me about job openings after getting married. She is just graduation passed, and have hardly command over English. Now she is blessed with her son who is of about 3 years and husband is working in a renowned organization. I personally feel that life is not all about getting married, having a loving husband and cute children. If I'm studying, doing well in life and my parents are not at all concerned about my marriage then what's wrong out here. Here in this part of the nation I brazen out numerous illiterate and uncivilized people who really think that girls are the useless weight on this earth and their aim of life should walk around their family and kids.
Last night I went for dinner with my very good friend and was shocked to know his views about the female fraternity. Once I told him that for guys 30-32 is the ideal age to get married because at this ripen age men become serious and focused about their life, they get matured and know how to manage their life. He is into his family business and I must accept that he could be an outstanding businessman, he has razor sharp business skills. I was astonished by listening his perception that, when at the age of 32 I'll marry then I'll get a girl of 28-29. I said, "Are the girls of 28-29 are not girls? What's wrong in them?" But he said that's wrong & I don't want to fight over this issue.
This particular thing was a kind of eye-opener for me. I think that now the girls should come up with some strong actions. Women fought their voting rights in several parts of the world, then I think this is the best time for the Indian women to announce a revolution against the male chauvinism and should prove them wrong. Women should pursue their studies and should take up the profession they like the most. Education make a human being modest and unpretentious facilitate the capability to think over their independence and sovereignty. Hope I'm able to convey my message to my female readers properly.
wonderful post dear...........quite an eye opener......three cheers for women fraternity!!!!!!!
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